When you ask people around whats friendship ?, probably these are the answers you get..
"Friendship is life.."
"Friendship , without which life is Impossible."
"Friendship is oxygen " and many more...
But actually its very difficult to express what friendship Is.
And you cant understand the meaning of it until you have a true friend,
Until you are in a true relation with your friend...
Many of you might have many good friends , some may have a few of them, some may have one or two, and its surprising to hear that some still doesn't have even one. And when they are asked "why", they answer " i never found anyone that good", " they never got interest in me", " people around never like me" , and many more...
For them who hasn't tasted the wonderful relation, friendship yet. Same as you even I used to sit lonely , it was the time when we used to live in the world of fantasy ,when we used to hear stories of real brotherhood and friendship and also see movies and hear songs like "yeh dostii hum nahi chodenge..." , and like everyone even i had a wish of having such a true friendship.
It was after the friendship day. As usual everyone was saying "happy friendship day" to all, even i said to some of my classmates. Suddenly I got a greeting from one of my classmate it was handmade scripted on it "Happy friendship day" seeing it a very pleasant feeling ran through out me and made my lips to go wide smile. I opened it and was amazed to see his handwriting saying "nice to have a friend like you" and just couldn't imagine that a friendship card for me...
Actually that moment gave me a wonderful friend , a true friend... I asked him "Is it for me".He smilingly " haa bhai, sirf tumhare liye". Then I thought of giving him same a handmade greeting and like that we became friends , we started sitting together, sharing lunch boxes and later exchanging greetings on all occasion be it Independence day.
From the above story of mine, I want to show how we got into a wonderful relation friendship. When I saw my friend giving me a card it made my heart to beat faster or that was one of the good things I found in him and then even I gave that special feeling to him, which made our friendship strong.
That is friendship is never one sided. And when its two sided only you come to know the wonderful meaning of friendship. And then you start sharing things, you get to understand each other, you get to know what your friend likes and what your friend wants from you. Still it’s not over, a real friend is one who stops you from all bad and leads you to all good. And when you go through small sacrifices made by you and your friend like getting punished for you, these all just put a fevi quick strength in your bond.
And then you feel that you are not alone in this world. You have someone who will hear your sorrows ,will find time for you, will be there when you need him the most.
So to them who blame people around who say that "friends around are not good" or "they are not like me", "they don’t understand me". The problem is in you, and that is why the person whom you want to care doesn’t like you or he does not feel that you can be his friend. So you must change yourself and try to make him feel good and never wait or be in a thought that a friend would come and give you a greeting as my friend did to me.
You should always try to turn up yourself good and show love to everyone. And when you have this kind of positive attitude with everyone, you are the person loved by everyone and everyone wants to have a relation with you and share things with you….
So friendship always depend on you, yourself , how you react to friends , how you maintain it…………………………
So try going deep into yourselves, check what are the things keeping others away from you and build them up.
And start making friends as many as possible remember good ones.
And believe me there is nothing better than friendship in this world , try experiencing it before it gets too late.
" For maintaining your Friendship you only need to be a good friend ."
